I’ve been thinking the whole night – of trust issues. True enough, of all the qualities that make up a good relationship, trust is undeniably the most important. But what if my partner has trust issues in the relationship? There will be question mark in front of everything... so what’s the point? I’ll doubt his love. Everything will be just going through the motions with little or no emotional connection. I’ll never be able to have the kind of relationship that I really want until we heal this issue. Trust takes a long time to develop and no time at all to be destroyed. If the trust is lost, the underlying love must be VERY STRONG to carry the people through until the trust is rebuilt. In some cases, that never happens. What can I see in the future, or will there be any future to this relationship? Do I still hang on? Is he happy?

Ultimately you have to trust someone you love. What does that mean? He doesn’t love me enough to trust me. Things like "I don't trust you already", can be said easily.. but it may takes a long time to heal especially when it pierced the heart.