一段感情是需要经营的， 尤其是在维持一段长久的恋爱时，不能说‘顺其自然’。因为如果让一段感情‘顺其自然’，它会‘顺其自然’的被忽略，对方的付出也会变得理所当然。经营一段感情需要精力。在经营一段感情时，重点在于是否能在其中找寻欢乐。
random poem which i find meaningful:
After a while you learn the subtle difference
between holding a hand and chaining a soul
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
and company doesn't always mean security
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts
and presents aren't promises
And you begin to accept your defeats
with your head up and your eyes ahead
with the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child
And you learn to build all your roads on today
because tomorrow's ground is too uncertain for plans
and futures have a way of falling down mid-flight.
After a while you learn that even sunshine burns
if you get too much.
So you plant your own garden and decorate your own soul
instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers.
And you learn that you really can endure
that you really are strong
and you actually have worth.
And you learn and you learn...
with every good-bye you learn
today:
went KTV! Oh my gosh.. it's been ages! Random photos.. it should/will/must end with my face! BAH!
